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Elite personal brand photography
DAting App Photographer south Florida
Luxury Instagram photoshoot
World's Best Dating Photographer USA
Elliot La-Mer
XiFLARE
MEN'S PHOTOSHOOTS
FOR THE DIGITAL AGE
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WHERE DOES THE PHOTOSHOOTS ARE TAKING PLACE?In South Florida, USA: • Miami & Brickell • West Palm beach • Coral Gables • South Beach More specifically at outdoors and public areas like fancy buildings, hotels, Bars, parks and shopping malls. We can also do photoshoots in your city, but results are less predictable and generally not recommended.
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WHICH PROPS SHOULD I BRING?Wallet Car Keys Duffle bag Sunglasses Leather jacket Hat / Cap Watch Laptop Phone Any other prop that conveys your personality
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WILL MY PHOTOSHOOT TAKE PLACE IN A PHOTO STUDIO?No. XiFLARE Photoshoots are outdoors and public areas.
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HOW DO WE GET FROM ONE LOCATION TO ANOTHER DURING THE PHOTOSHOOTS?We use electric scooters (Apollo City Pro) Alternatively, You can use your car or Uber. [ parking takes time, so Uber is recmmended ]
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WHY SHOULD I PAY FOR A PHOTOSHOOT INSTEAD OF USING AI ?Short answer: Because if done on phone apps it looks fake. and women can detect it immediately. It’s a turn-off on dating apps and sets the stage for deception and disappointment when she meets you in real life. Long answer: Having said that, Ai photos can work if they are done professionally using high mega pixel images (Phone photos won't work) and using advanced tools like ComfyUI and powerful dedicated hardware. This cannot be done if you're not a expert. At XiFLARE, our mid “HERO” and upper “ULTIMATE” packages include AI image generations that are ultra-realistic and grounded in your true appearance. They’re a bonus, layered on top of your conventional photoshoot — designed to fill in creative gaps, like luxury yachts, mountain tops, exotic travel vibes, and more. Here’s what you get: XiFLARE 'HERO' – includes +6 AI-generated images XiFLARE 'ULTIMATE' – includes +12 AI-generated images Having a real photoshoot is THE ONLY WAY TO GET convincing Ai image generations due to the high resolution images that trains the Ai. iPhone photos won't work.
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HOW DOES PAYMENT WORKS?When you ready to book, you pay Deposit. [ Between $369-$999 depends on your package ] That opens your slot to schedule the zoom call, getting to know you on a deeper level, and the massive planning stage that follows. At the end of the photoshoot - you pay the balance through your preferred method. We accept all payment methods: Apple Pay PayPal Zelle Venmo Credit Cards etc. Money Back Guarantee ✅ If at the end of the photoshoot you’re not blown away by the results that you see on the camera’s screen - you’re getting your deposit back, and no questions asked 💯
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HOW STYLING WORKS ?What should I wear for the shoot? Bring your favorite outfits – we’ll mix and match them on the spot to create powerful looks. ➡️ Avoid baggy or washed-out clothes ( unless you’re going for a rugged, edgy vibe ) ➡️ If something doesn’t photograph perfectly, we’ll enhance or tweak it using advanced AI digital styling – no stress. ➡️ We’ll also send you a curated outfit list in advance. You can shop for those pieces and return them later if needed.
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HOW SOON CAN I SCHEDULE MY PHOTOSHOOT? [ Short Notice ]The sooner - the better. That said, we require at least 48 hours notice to ensure proper planning and preparation. XiFLARE shoots are highly customized, and we don’t rush greatness.
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WHAT IF I WANT TO BE PHOTOGRAPHED IN EXOTIC HIGH-VALUE LOCATIONS (Yachts, Private Jets etc..)Some exotic locations are hard or expansive to arrange. You’re free to rent and pay for Yacht / Clubs / Private Jets and it'll be included. If not - we offer advanced Ai and you get to choose any scenario you desire. It’ll look extremely close to reality. ( included in mid “Hero” and up-tier “Ultimate’ package )
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HOW DOES THE 100% MONEY-BACK GUARANTEE WORKS?We’re the only dating photography service that offers a 100% money-back guarantee on photoshoots. Why? Because we have ironclad confidence that you’ll be blown away. Our clients consistently walk away with results that exceed expectations — and to date (as of May 2025), we’ve had ZERO unsatisfied clients. Check out our Google Reviews HERE Here’s how it works: You’ll be reviewing your shots live during the photoshoot. If you’re not blown away, you'll get a full refund of your deposit by the end of the shoot. no questions asked! After that point - the extensive culling and retouching process begins — which involves significant time and resources. That’s why refund requests must be made before post-production starts. We stand behind our work with full transparency and zero pressure — because we know you’re going to love what you see and it'll change your life.
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WILL MY NEW PHOTOS LOOK LIKE OTHER XiFLARE CLIENTS?No. Every photoshoot is 100% unique and tailored specifically to you. We have a bank of 250 locations. And it’s always growing. You are getting an original set of exclusive backgrounds that are yours alone.
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WHO WILL BE MY PHOTOGRAPHER?Currently Elliot La-Mer is the sole Photographer on XiFLARE photoshoots. You’re getting the best. but it won't last forever.
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WHY XiFLARE PHOTOSHOOTS COST $1200-$2500 ?Short answer: It takes 35–65+ hours of work to deliver top-tier results. It requires rare skills and creative talent – specifically, making average guys look attractive on dating apps. We use world-class, premium camera gear for unmatched image quality. Detailed answer: Meticulous Planning Process Every XiFLARE shoot is custom-tailored. We don’t just show up and shoot — we plan everything in advance with precision and creativity. Every move is mapped out based on available light, timing, and flow — so we’re never wasting time or bouncing around aimlessly. Outfit changes happen in clean, upscale spaces that are carefully pre-selected. Everything has to be perfectly synchronized creatively and logistically. The result? A smooth, efficient shoot with stunning backdrops and perfect lighting at every location. Extensive Culling & Selection Culling is a meticulous form of art that distills thousands of shots into a tight, impactful visual narrative. We start with 4,000–5,000 shots, captured across multiple locations and outfit combinations. From there, we carefully narrow them down to around 500 of the most natural and captivating images, then refine the selection to 50… then 25, 12, or 6 depending on your package for high-end retouching. We then setup online galleries for you to easily view, select, and download your high-resolution final images — fast and seamless. Magazine-Style Retouching (1.5 – 4 hours per image) This is where the final magic happens. Even before retouching, your images already look 🔥 straight out of the camera. But our high-end editing takes them to the next level. Each image is refined over multiple rounds — skin is smoothed naturally (never looks fake), colors are perfected, outfits are digitally styled, backgrounds are enhanced, and countless micro-adjustments are made. Retouching is an art form — and it takes serious time to strike that perfect balance between polished and authentic. All in, your shoot involves 35–65+ hours of work across planning, shooting, selecting, and retouching. — using top-tier camera bodies, lenses, and lighting gear (3 pro cameras, 5 premium lenses, all state-of-the-art). Given the results and what goes into creating them — this isn’t expensive. It’s high-value.
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DOES XiFLARE PHOTOSHOOT INCLUDE PROFESSIONAL CORPORATE HEADSHOTS ?XiFLARE photoshoots are lifestyle and dating oriented. In some cases, we can add a few professional shots using natural light. But If you’re after corporate headshots then a studio lighting is essential and it’s separate. If you need that - Ask us for more details.
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WHY XiFLARE PHOTOSHOOTS COST $1200-$2500 ?Short answer: It takes 35–65+ hours of work to deliver top-tier results. It requires rare skills and creative talent – specifically, making regular guys look like standout models. We use world-class, premium camera gear for unmatched image quality. Detailed answer: Meticulous Planning Process Every XiFLARE shoot is custom-tailored. We don’t just show up and shoot — we plan everything in advance with precision and creativity. Every move is mapped out based on available light, timing, and flow — so we’re never wasting time or bouncing around aimlessly. Outfit changes happen in clean, upscale spaces that are carefully pre-selected. Everything has to be perfectly synchronized creatively and logistically. The result? A smooth, efficient shoot with stunning backdrops and perfect lighting at every location. Extensive Culling & Selection Culling is a meticulous form of art that distills thousands of shots into a tight, impactful visual narrative. We start with 4,000–5,000 shots, captured across multiple locations and outfit combinations. From there, we carefully narrow them down to around 500 of the most natural and captivating images, then refine the selection to 50… then 25, 12, or 6 depending on your package for high-end retouching. We then setup online galleries for you to easily view, select, and download your high-resolution final images — fast and seamless. Magazine-Style Retouching (1.5 – 4 hours per image) This is where the final magic happens. Even before retouching, your images already look 🔥 straight out of the camera. But our high-end editing takes them to the next level. Each image is refined over multiple rounds — skin is smoothed naturally (never looks fake), colors are perfected, outfits are digitally styled, backgrounds are enhanced, and countless micro-adjustments are made. Retouching is an art form — and it takes serious time to strike that perfect balance between polished and authentic. All in, your shoot involves 35–65+ hours of work across planning, shooting, selecting, and retouching. — using top-tier camera bodies, lenses, and lighting gear (3 pro cameras, 5 premium lenses, all state-of-the-art). Given the results and what goes into creating them — this isn’t expensive. It’s high-value.
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HOW DOES PAYMENT WORKS?When you ready to book, you pay Deposit. [ Between $369-$999 depends on your package ] That opens your slot to schedule the zoom call, getting to know you on a deeper level, and the massive planning stage that follows. At the end of the photoshoot - you pay the balance through your preferred method. We accept all payment methods: Apple Pay PayPal Zelle Venmo Credit Cards etc. Money Back Guarantee ✅ If at the end of the photoshoot you’re not blown away by the results that you see on the camera’s screen - you’re getting your deposit back, and no questions asked 💯
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WHY SHOULD I PAY FOR A PHOTOSHOOT INSTEAD OF USING CHEAP AI ?Short answer: because it looks fake. and women can detect it immediately. It’s a turn-off on dating apps and sets the stage for deception and disappointment when she meets you in real life. Long answer: Having said that, Ai photos can work if they are done properly and professionally using advanced tools like ComfyUI and powerful dedicated hardware. Our Mid “Hero” and upper “Ultimate” packages includes Ai Image generations that looks reliable and true to reality. At XiFLARE, our “HERO” and “ULTIMATE” packages include AI image generations that are ultra-realistic and grounded in your true appearance. They’re a bonus, layered on top of your conventional photoshoot — designed to fill in creative gaps, like luxury yachts, mountain tops, exotic travel vibes, and more. Here’s what you get: XiFLARE 'HERO' – includes +6 AI-generated images XiFLARE 'ULTIMATE' – includes +12 AI-generated images To achieve natural, convincing AI portraits it's crucial to use high-resolution raw files coming from conventional high-megapixel camera gear to train the Ai Lora model. iPhone photos won’t look real.
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HOW DOES THE 100% MONEY BACK GUARANTEE WORKS?We’re the only dating photography service that offers a 100% money-back guarantee on photoshoots. Why? Because we have ironclad confidence that you’ll be blown away. Our clients consistently walk away with results that exceed expectations — and to date (as of May 2025), we’ve had ZERO unsatisfied clients. Check out our Google Reviews HERE Here’s how it works: You’ll be reviewing your shots live during the photoshoot. If you’re not blown away, you'll get a full refund of your deposit by the end of the shoot. no questions asked! After that point - the extensive culling and retouching process begins — which involves significant time and resources. That’s why refund requests must be made before post-production starts. We stand behind our work with full transparency and zero pressure — because we know you’re going to love what you see and it'll change your life.
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HOW STYLING WORKS?What should I wear for the shoot? Bring your favorite outfits – we’ll mix and match them on the spot to create powerful looks. ➡️ Avoid baggy or washed-out clothes ( unless you’re going for a rugged, edgy vibe ) ➡️ If something doesn’t photograph perfectly, we’ll enhance or tweak it using advanced AI digital styling – no stress. ➡️ We’ll also send you a curated outfit list in advance. You can shop for those pieces and return them later if needed.
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WHICH PROPS SHOULD I BRING?Wallet Car Keys Duffle bag Sunglasses Leather jacket Hat / Cap Watch Laptop Phone Any other prop that conveys your personality
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